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Stress is considered a cause for smoking by many people. Actually,
smoking is a cause of stress. Recent correspondence dealt with reasons
people give for going back to smoking: social situations, parties,
alcohol consumption and stress. This month I wish to amplify on
stress.
In January of 1979, Chicago and vicinity was devastated by a major
blizzard. Heavy snows fell just after the New Year crippling the
area. Additional snowfall continued throughout the week. During
this time period I was barraged with phone calls from participants
of the November, 1978 clinic claiming to be terribly nervous, upset
and anxious from "not smoking." Curiously, most of them
were feeling well during the month of December. They had occasional
urges which lasted only seconds and were quite easy to overcome.
What they were experiencing in January was different. Many felt
that they were on the verge of cracking up. To them life was "just
no good" without their cigarettes. Was the anxiety they were
now experiencing really a side effect from giving up smoking?
To any outside observer the answer to the mysterious intensification
of perceived withdrawal was obvious. In fact, if our ex-smokers
listened to radio or television or read the front page of any newspaper,
they would have encountered a story on cabin fever. By simply comparing
their symptoms with those accompanying cabin fever they would understand
what was happening.
Attributing the anxiety to smoking cessation was transference of
blame. In fact, they were having a normal reaction to an abnormal
situation - confinement due to the blizzard. They would have had
the same anxiety whether or not they had given up cigarettes.
The above story illustrates an atypical time period in which numerous
people experience similar complaints. In everyday life inherent
problems exist. Work, family, friends, and money can all contribute
to daily distress. Ex-smokers often think that if they just take
a cigarette during a stressful episode the situation will be solved.
For example, consider a person who finds he has a flat tire in a
parking lot during a freezing rain. When encountering this kind
of misfortune, the ex-smoker's first reaction often is, "I
need a cigarette." What will actually solve this problem is
changing the tire, and driving off in a warm car. What would a cigarette
do to help this situation? It only makes the person see the flat
tire longer and freeze more. This adds up to greater frustration.
The first puff will probably reinforce the addiction to cigarettes
which is a much greater crisis than the flat tire ever was. In fact,
taking the first puff almost always results in a bigger problem
than the crisis that "caused" them to take the puff. Even
in a real catastrophe, such as a death in the family, injuries,
illnesses, flooding resulting in major property loss, bankruptcy
and so on, a cigarette will not solve the problem. It will just
add another major problem to the originally bad situation.Remember,
smoking cannot solve problems of daily living. No matter what the
problem, there is a more effective way of solving it than smoking.
In fact, a smoker's health risks are a real problem that can only
be solved if they
Table of Contents
1. Why
People Smoke
2. I
Smoke Because I Like Smoking!
3. I
Smoke Because I'm Self-Destructive!
4. You
Smoke Because You're A Smoke-a-holic!
5. I
Have to Smoke Because of All My Stress!
6.
I've Smoked for So Long and So Much, What is the Use in Quitting
Now?
7.
What A Relief, I Think I Have Cancer!
8. The
Power of Advertising
9. A
Safer Way to Smoke
10.Are
You Smoking More and Enjoying it Less?
11.A
Fate Worse than Death?
12. Quitting
by Gradual Withdrawal
13. I
Can't Quit or I Won't Quit
14.Why
Did I Start Smoking? Why Did I Quit?"
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